EP. 1972

08/26/26

Dr. Sasha Hamdani

โ€œIt’s not about making you less sensitive. It’s giving you more control.โ€

The Real Root of ADHD Isn't Trauma, It's This | Dr. Sasha Hamdani

That feeling when a small comment ruins your entire day? There’s actually a name for it, and it’s not a character flaw.

Dr. Sasha Hamdani is a board certified psychiatrist and ADHD specialist who spent years thinking something was fundamentally wrong with her before she connected the dots between her emotions and her ability to function. She was diagnosed with ADHD in fourth grade but her parents never told her, calling her medication a โ€œvitaminโ€ until she found out by accident in medical school, mid breakdown, after a grade crash she couldn’t explain.

In this conversation she breaks down why ADHD is genetic rather than trauma driven, why women are diagnosed on average at 35 instead of childhood, and why so many get handed antidepressant after antidepressant for the wrong diagnosis. She also opens up about rejection sensitive dysphoria, the moment her father’s sudden death taught her that unregulated emotion can shut down your whole life, and the years she spent secretly dating her now husband while terrified of rejecting her family’s expectations.

If you’ve ever felt like your emotions hijack your entire day, or you’ve been told to just calm down when your whole nervous system feels like it’s on fire, this one will change how you see yourself.

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โ€œDon't be scared of your emotions. Lean into them. Be able to feel them, be able to process them.โ€ โ€” Dr. Sasha Hamdani
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And now let’s jump into episode 1972 of The School of Greatness!

Some Questions I Ask:

  • What would you say is typically the root cause of someone having ADHD?
  • Why are drugs typically the first thing that most doctors or primary care individuals prescribe to someone when they diagnose them with ADHD?
  • So what changed once you understood what was really happening?
  • What’s happening in the brain, in simple terms, when someone feels a small moment of rejection as overwhelming pain or anxiety?
  • What’s the most damaging piece of advice people with RSD get from well-meaning friends or family?
  • How can someone who feels like they’re overly sensitive turn that into a strength?
  • If someone doesn’t have the ability to handle rejection, what type of life will they live?

In this episode, you will learn:

  • Distinguish real ADHD from anxiety, trauma, and depression so you stop cycling through the wrong diagnosis and medications
  • Uncover why women are diagnosed with ADHD nearly three decades later than men, and what that misdiagnosis actually costs
  • Recognize Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD) as a neurological response, not a character flaw, so you can finally make sense of overwhelming emotional pain
  • Replace well-meaning but harmful advice like โ€œjust calm downโ€ with language that actually helps someone spiraling from rejection
  • Transform deep sensitivity into a genuine strength instead of a source of shame
  • Build emotional regulation habits early so grief, rejection, and stress stop hijacking your ability to function
  • Plus much more…
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