Esther Perel, Michael Bungay Stanier, and Gary John Bishop

The 3 Biggest Relationship Mistakes You're Making ( & How to Fix Them!)

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In this episode of The School of Greatness, Lewis delves into the complexities of creating authentic relationships with three renowned relationship experts: Esther Perel, Michael Bungay Stanier, and Gary John Bishop. Esther Perel shares her insights on desire in long-term relationships and the changing dynamics of modern dating. She emphasizes the importance of shared values and the challenge of maintaining desire over time. Michael Bungay Stanier offers practical advice on becoming a better conversationalist, highlighting the power of curiosity and asking good questions to foster meaningful connections. Gary John Bishop discusses how to maintain individuality within relationships and the importance of personal responsibility in achieving a fulfilling partnership. Together, these experts provide a comprehensive guide to understanding and improving relationships by focusing on authenticity, communication, and self-awareness.

“There’s this ability to ask a good question then simply listen. Not feeling the need to jump in, interrupt or one-up. Just be present and listen.”- Michael Bungay Stanier

And now let’s jump into episode 1646 of The School of Greatness!

“When the responsibility for the quality of your life lies with anyone but you, you become the victim.”- Gary John Bishop

Some Questions I Ask:

What are the core challenges that come up in long-term relationships?
Why do you think relationships have become more complicated in today’s society compared to 50 or a hundred years ago?
How do you regain trust if someone has been unfaithful or hurtful in a relationship?
What makes someone an incredible conversationalist?
Can you share a few examples of powerful questions that people can use to foster more meaningful conversations and build rapport with others?
For someone who feels like they clam up and shy away in networking situations, how can they become magnetic and attract success and welcome valuable relationships?
Why do so many people feel stuck in their relationships?
What happens when you’re out of integrity with yourself?
What does it take to keep a relationship healthy over many years?
Why is it so hard for people to be 100% authentic in their relationships?

In this episode, you will learn:

The biggest obstacles people face in relationships.
The power of asking good questions to build rapport.
Why even happy people sometimes cheat.
How to maintain individuality within a relationship.
The key to sustaining desire and romance in long-term relationships.
Plus much more…

Show Notes:

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Esther Perel, Michael Bungay Stanier, and Gary John Bishop

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Kaibu by Killercats

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Esther Perel, Michael Bungay Stanier, and Gary John Bishop

The 3 Biggest Relationship Mistakes You're Making ( & How to Fix Them!)

“There’s this ability to ask a good question then simply listen. Not feeling the need to jump in, interrupt or one-up. Just be present and listen.”- Michael Bungay Stanier