Red Flags To Watch Out For & The Key To A Healthy Relationship with Lori Gottlieb

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Lori Gottlieb

Red Flags To Watch Out For & The Key To A Healthy Relationship


Finding love is hard. That’s no secret — so when we finally do find it, it’s only natural to want to work hard to keep it by going “all in” on that relationship. Dedication and commitment are both important in any partnership, of course, but we also have to remember to do what we can to keep our own identity intact. Without an ability to be self-reliant, codependency starts to form, which is a one-way street to resentment.

During Part 2 of my conversation with the great, Lori Gottlieb, we discuss the danger of relying too heavily on your partner to make you happy. We also walk through the red flags Lori says to look for in a potential partner, how we can all improve our communication and trust we have in our relationships, and so much more.

Lori’s insight always gets me thinking, and I think the principles she lays out during this episode can help people who are already in relationships, those who are looking for one, and everyone in between. And now, please help me welcome back the one-and-only Lori Gottlieb for Part 2 of her interview on The School of Greatness!

“People should come from the perspective of curiosity not criticism.” @LoriGottlieb1  

Lori Gottlieb is a psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone, which has sold over a million copies and is currently being adapted as a television series for ABC. In addition to her clinical practice, she is co-host of the popular “Dear Therapists” podcast produced by Katie Couric and writes The Atlantic’s weekly “Dear Therapist” advice column. She is a sought-after expert in media such as The Today Show, Good Morning America, CBS This Morning, CNN, and NPR’s “Fresh Air” and her recent TED Talk was one of the Top 10 Most Watched of the Year.

I always love learning new and fresh perspectives on all topics, and Lori never disappoints when it comes to teaching me about relationships, dating, and self love. If you’re ready to learn about the relationship red flags you should look out for, how to avoid codependency, how to take your communication to the next level, and more, then this episode is for you. I hope you’ll join me on Episode 1,191 of The School of Greatness!

“It doesn’t make you less of a person if you have compassion, but not forgiveness.” @LoriGottlieb1  

Some Questions I Ask:

  • When do you know that your partner understands you?
  • How do you talk kindly to your younger self?
  • How do we get to a place of fully trusting our partner?
  • How do we go about the conversation when you need space from your partner?
  • How do we start changing the culture around masculine vulnerability?

In this episode, you will learn:

  • The biggest red flags to look out for in relationships.
  • How to improve your trust and communication with your partner.
  • Why it’s dangerous to rely on your partner to make you happy.
  • The key things healthy relationships have in common.
  • Plus much more…
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