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Jordan Peterson

On Marriage, Resentment & Healing The Past (Part 1)

How do you create relationships that last?

A long, happy marriage may seem like an impossible feat in today’s world.

How do you keep disagreements and differences from breaking you apart from your partner? How do you navigate tragedy and loss as a couple? How do you continue to grow as an individual while also growing as a family?

Whether or not you plan to get married, I think it’s safe to say that most people desire lasting love. Unfortunately, there seem to be so many conflicts that get in the way of that happening.

I’ve seen so many relationships driven apart by resentment, disagreement, tragedy, and hurt. No matter how great you and your partner are together, you can’t escape the chaos of life. While the first few years of your relationship may be like a fairytale, you will have to face difficulties at some point — big or small.

How do you stay together in the face of those hardships?

Today’s guest has been in love with the same woman for 50 years and counting, and today, he’s sharing the secrets of his success with you all! Please welcome back Dr. Jordan Peterson back to The School of Greatness!

“We don’t get to play revisionist with our history.” @jordanbpeterson  

Dr. Jordan B. Peterson is a professor of psychology at the University of Toronto, a clinical psychologist, and the author of the multi-million copy bestseller 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos, #1 for nonfiction in 2018 in the US, Canada, the UK, Australia, New Zealand, Sweden, the Netherlands, Brazil and Norway, and slated for translation into 50 languages.

Raised and toughened in the frigid wastelands of Northern Alberta, Dr. Peterson has flown a hammer-head roll in a carbon-fiber stuntplane, piloted a mahogany racing sailboat around Alcatraz Island, explored an Arizona meteorite crater with a group of astronauts, built a Native American Long-House on the upper floor of his Toronto home, and been inducted into a Pacific Kwakwaka’wakw family (see He’s been a dishwasher, gas jockey, bartender, short-order cook, beekeeper, oil derrick bit re-tipper, plywood mill laborer, and railway line worker. He’s taught mythology to physicians, lawyers, and businessmen; worked with Jim Balsillie, former CEO of Blackberry’s Research in Motion, on Resilient People, Resilient Planet, the report of the UN Secretary General’s High Level Panel on Global Sustainability; helped his clinical clients manage the triumphs and catastrophes of life; served as an advisor to senior partners of major Canadian law firms; penned the forward for the 50th anniversary edition of Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn’s The Gulag Archipelago; lectured across North America, Europe, and Australia in one of the most-well attended book tours ever mounted; and, for The Founder Institute, identified thousands of promising entrepreneurs, in 60 different countries.

With his students and colleagues, Dr. Peterson has published more than a hundred scientific papers, advancing the modern understanding of creativity, competence, and personality, while his now-classic book, Maps of Meaning: The Architecture of Belief (released in June 2018 as a now bestselling author-read audiobook) transformed the psychology of religion. He was nominated for five consecutive years as one of Ontario’s Best University Lecturers and is one of only three professors rated as “life-changing” in the U of T’s underground student handbook of course ratings.

Dr. Peterson recently came out with his new book Beyond Order: 12 More Rules for Life, and I suggest you pick up a copy! This book is full of wisdom on how to bring order to the chaos of our daily lives.

I’ve had the honor of interviewing Dr. Peterson in the past (Episodes #664 and #665), and it was a joy to have him back on the show! Our conversation was so insightful that I had to spilt it into two parts, so make sure to check back on Wednesday to hear the rest of his wisdom!

But for now, join me on Episode 1,093 to learn about marriage, resentment, and healing the past with Dr. Jordan Peterson!

“Conflict delayed is conflict multiplied.” @jordanbpeterson  

Some Questions I Ask:

  • What do you love most about your wife?
  • What are the keys to a 50-year marriage like yours?
  • What happens when we feel our partner is depriving us of what we want?
  • Why is it hard to admit what we want?
  • Did you have a goal to impact so many people?
  • How are you able to handle mass attention?
  • What is the best approach to healing shame?
  • How can we think about reputation?

In this episode, you will learn:

  • The keys to Jordan’s 50 year relationship. It was great hearing him really open up!
  • How to start opening up and admitting what you want in life.
  • How Jordan thinks about discipline.
  • How feeling resentful can actually be useful.
  • How to heal the memories of our past.
  • Plus much more…
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