Lewis Howes

“What if being single isn’t a problem that you need to fix?”

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How To Deal With Being Broken Up With | Lewis Howes

Lewis gets brutally honest about the relationship patterns that kept him stuck for years and why being single became the most transformative season of his life.

He breaks down the difference between chemistry and compatibility, revealing how most people confuse fleeting feelings for genuine alignment.

You’ll learn why confidence that comes from being chosen disappears the moment you’re rejected, and how to build the kind of inner strength that makes you ready for real partnership. Lewis shares the exact exercise he did with Martha before committing that created alignment on values, vision, and lifestyle.

This isn’t about staying single forever – it’s about using this season to heal your wounds, raise your standards, and become the person who’s ready for the relationship you actually want.

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"You deserve to have conscious love. You deserve to have a love that is not perfect, but is perfect for you because it aligns to your values, your vision, your lifestyle, and it’s a mirror improving you throughout your life.”

And now let’s jump into episode 1885 of The School of Greatness!

Some Questions I Ask:

What patterns keep showing up in my relationships?
What am I afraid of that could happen if I were alone?
What part of me is still seeking validation from others?
Can I look myself in the mirror and say I’m proud of who I’m becoming?
Am I comfortable being alone with myself without distractions?
What are my non-negotiables for values, character, and vision in a partner?
Am I looking for love or looking for relief from my pain?

In this episode, you will learn:

Transform the wounds you’ve been carrying into past relationships before they bleed on someone new
Build confidence from within instead of depending on someone choosing you to feel worthy
Discover who you are without distractions so you stop using relationships to avoid yourself
Raise your standards through alignment rather than settling out of fear of being alone
Prepare yourself for healthy lasting love by doing the inner work now that creates conscious partnership later
Plus much more…

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