New book from NYT bestselling author Lewis Howes is now available!

New book from NYT bestselling author Lewis Howes is now available!


Dr. Ramani Durvasula

World's #1 NARCISSIST Expert: THIS Is How You IDENTIFY & HEAL From Toxic People | Dr. Ramani

"Healing from narcissistic abuse is individuating, becoming autonomous, and ultimately rising into your authentic self."

"Grief is a process you go through... It is the most human of experiences. Like birth and death, grief is the experience that unites everyone, and we have some pretty universal reactions to it. And the big mistake we're making now, in modern times, is we believe we can rush through grief." @DoctorRamani  

And now let’s jump into episode 1577 of The School of Greatness!

“The connective tissue of a long term, committed relationship is respect, compassion, safety, a growth orientation, attunement. That’s it, that’s safety in a relationship.” @DoctorRamani  

Some Questions I Ask:

  • Is it even possible to heal from a past abusive relationship with a narcissist and to trust yourself again after to not choose a narcissist?
  • Why is it so common for people to make excuses for their partner’s bad behaviors consistently?
  • What are the qualities of a discerning person?
  • What is the biggest challenge a woman might have sleeping with a man on the first date?
  • How can you know if someone is a narcissist on the first date?
  • How do you know when to trust how you’re feeling in your body when something feels right when meeting someone new?
  • How do you know if you’re entering in a new relationship through trauma bonding?
  • How do you know when you know that someone is the right person?
  • Why sometimes do people have a healthy model of love from their parents but still end up with a narcissist?
  • Is it possible to be charming, charismatic, confident, successful and attractive and not be a narcissist?
  • What is the percentage of narcissists in the country right now?
  • How many types of narcissism are there?
  • Is there any research on men being more narcissistic than women?
  • Who is to blame for creating narcissists?
  • When parents praise their child excessively, what are they saying to that child?
  • What are 3 things a parent can do when raising a child to set them up to be a healthy, non narcissistic human being?
  • How do we forgive a narcissist who has abused us?
  • If you don’t forgive, do you feel like you can truly heal?
  • How do you deal with the injustice and unfairness of having a narcissist in your life who you still have love for?

In this episode, you will learn:

  • To recognize red flags: Through introspection and education, you’ll identify behaviors and traits common in narcissists, helping you steer clear of similar individuals in the future.
  • To establish healthy boundaries: By understanding the dynamics of abusive relationships and the importance of boundaries, you’ll develop the tools to safeguard your emotional and psychological well-being.
  • To trust your intuition: Through self-reflection and practice, you’ll strengthen your ability to trust your instincts, enabling you to make sound judgments and avoid falling into patterns of toxic relationships.
  • To prioritize self-care: By prioritizing self-care and seeking support from trusted friends, family members, or professionals, you’ll cultivate resilience and gradually rebuild your sense of self-worth and confidence.
  • To reclaim your power: Through therapy, self-reflection, and personal growth, you’ll reclaim your sense of agency and autonomy, empowering yourself to create fulfilling relationships based on mutual respect and genuine connection.
  • Plus much more…
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