Dr. Tara Swart & Matthew Hussey

"Why You're Sabotaging Your Love Life"- The Neuroscience of Attraction Revealed

"You meet people on the same level of psychological wound as you." - Dr. Tara Swart

In this powerful episode of The School of Greatness, I dive deep into the fascinating world of love, relationships, and the human brain with three incredible experts. We kick things off with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart, who breaks down the science behind attraction, bonding, and how our childhood wounds impact our adult relationships. Next, I sit down with relationship guru Matthew Hussey to discuss his new book “Love Life” and unpack the keys to finding lasting love. Finally, we explore the future of dating and how to build strong connections in our tech-driven world. This episode is packed with mind-blowing insights, practical advice, and inspiring stories that will transform how you approach love and relationships. Whether you’re single, dating, or in a long-term partnership, you won’t want to miss the game-changing wisdom shared in this conversation!

"Share yourself because that's the route to real connection, real friendships, real love." - Matthew Hussey

And now let’s jump into episode 1679 of The School of Greatness!

"The genetics and the receptors will load the gun, but sexual activity will pull the trigger." - Dr. Tara Swart

Some Questions I Ask:

Do you believe we can manifest our dreams and have healthy relationships if we haven’t healed our childhood wounds?
How does brain chemistry differ between men and women when it comes to attraction and bonding?
What role do psychedelics play in neuroplasticity and healing, and how does that compare to natural methods like meditation?
How can we break the cycle of being “never satisfied” in relationships and rewire our brains for lasting happiness?
What advice would you give your 18-year-old self about love and relationships?
How can parents teach their children to feel loved and valued without seeking validation from toxic relationships?
What do you think needs to change in modern dating culture to foster more meaningful connections?
How can couples maintain a strong connection and prioritize their relationship in the long-term?

In this episode, you will learn:

How childhood trauma and our “shadow self” influence our ability to attract and maintain healthy relationships.
The surprising ways brain chemistry and hormones impact attraction, bonding, and long-term commitment.
Why developing self-compassion and vulnerability is crucial for finding authentic love and connection.
Practical strategies for rewiring your brain to break negative relationship patterns and attract the right partner.
Expert tips for maintaining a strong connection with your partner and navigating the challenges of modern dating.
Plus much more…

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Kaibu by Killercats

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Dr. Tara Swart & Matthew Hussey

"Why You're Sabotaging Your Love Life"- The Neuroscience of Attraction Revealed

"You meet people on the same level of psychological wound as you." - Dr. Tara Swart

"Share yourself because that's the route to real connection, real friendships, real love." - Matthew Hussey