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Sadia Khan

Why 70% of Relationships End in The First Year w/ Sadia Khan


Joining us is the renowned relationship expert and author, Sadia Khan. With years of experience in the field, Sadia has been a guiding light for individuals seeking love, companionship, and personal growth. Today, we’re delving into a topic that many of us can relate to – dating. Whether you’re a novice or a seasoned dater, we’ve got you covered.

After graduating in psychology and completing masters in developmental psychology Sadia began teaching in inner London schools amongst children of deprived backgrounds. She then went on to teach privileged students in Dubai and noticed not only the economic but psychological advantage wealth provides children when their parents can access therapy. Sadia decided to complete her studies in psychotherapy and decided to post a few videos online mainly to make therapy accessible to those who may struggle to afford it and to make therapy more digestible to those who may not understand the concept. The videos blew up and changed her career path to online therapist, podcaster and content creator racking over 100 million views online.

“We go into a relationship almost blind to our own wounds and they resurface in the relationship and we blame them for not providing the medication of a wound that existed before we met them.”  

And now let’s jump into episode 1491 of The School of Greatness!

“When we enter relationships, we’re almost assessing if that partner is worthy of us… Instead of reflecting on what you need to heal and what you need to bring to the table and how you can help this relationship survive, we simply replace them with the illusion of options.”  

Some Questions I Ask:

  • Dating can be quite intimidating, especially for beginners. Could you outline some key principles or tips that you believe every beginner should know?
  • Could you share some practical advice for our listeners on how to boost their dating confidence?
  • Communication plays a vital role in dating. How can beginners navigate those initial conversations and ensure effective communication?
  • Online dating has become increasingly popular. What are some do’s and don’ts for beginners or experienced daters when it comes to online dating?
  • Commitment issues can contribute to early relationship endings. How can couples better navigate this crucial phase and build a strong foundation?

In this episode, you will learn:

  • The #1 reason why men and women struggle to keep relationships and why narcissistic behaviors are so prevalent in dating today.
  • Why women cheat more than men and the root cause of infidelity.
  • The importance of self control when searching for a long term relationship.
  • Practical advice to enhance your dating confidence, providing you with strategies to feel more self-assured on a first date.
  • Strategies to handle commitment issues, enabling you to navigate this critical phase of relationships and lay the groundwork for a strong and enduring partnership
  • Plus much more…

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