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Matthew Hussey & Sadia Khan

The Red Flags You Keep Ignoring! ( Don't Let Men Treat You Like This)

"Familiarity drives us, and it doesn’t care whether something is good or bad, just that it’s known." – Matthew Hussey

Welcome back to The School of Greatness! We have a very special episode for you today. For the first time ever, we’re in the studio with two incredible relationship experts, Sadia Khan and Matthew Hussey, to explore the reasons you’re still single and how to navigate the complexities of modern dating. Sadia is a psychologist and relationship coach who works with people around the world, and Matthew is a New York Times bestselling author renowned for his work in helping individuals build healthier relationships. Both are SOG fan favorites, so I’m thrilled to moderate this enlightening deep dive on relationships. Follow the show and stay tuned for part 2 and 3 of this round table discussion with Sadia and Matthew, now let’s dive in!


"There’s a myth that women aren’t interested in looks and charisma, but my experience shows they care about those just as much as men do." – Matthew Hussey  

And now let’s jump into episode 1623 of The School of Greatness!


"Hookup culture has made women immune to connection. They expect men to come and go, and they mirror that behavior." – Sadia Khan  

Some Questions I Ask:

  • Why do people tend to sabotage relationships even when they encounter green flags?
  • What role does familiarity play in preventing individuals from embracing healthy relationships
  • How do emotions like inconsistency and superficial charm become addictive in dating?
  • What are some common signs that someone is emotionally unavailable?
  • How has hookup culture impacted both men and women’s ability to form lasting connections?
  • Why do some men prioritize appearance and sexual gratification over deeper qualities in a partner?
  • What are the myths surrounding women’s attraction to status and money versus charisma and looks?
  • How can effective communication help filter out the wrong people in dating?
  • What are the challenges people face when trying to transition from casual dating to serious relationships?
  • How does fear of getting hurt lead to emotional unavailability, and how can someone overcome it?

In this episode, you will learn:

  • Why you might be sabotaging your own relationships without even realizing it.
  • The surprising truth about emotional availability in men and women today.
  • The addictive emotions that keep you stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns.
  • The red and green flags that can make or break your dating life.
  • How social media and hookup culture are impacting your chances for lasting love.
  • Plus much more…

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