"Sometimes your most painful moments in the present become your best memories in the future because you look back and you realize what you overcome."
Today we’re excited to welcome a special guest who’s no stranger to the spotlight of love and relationships — Nick Viall. An LA-based award-winning podcast host, best-selling author, entrepreneur, and a familiar face from ABC’s “The Bachelor,” Nick has carved a niche for himself as a contemporary voice in the world of dating advice. His podcast, “The Viall Files,” is a treasure trove of insights on relationships and pop culture, amassing over 100 million downloads.
Some Questions I Ask:
- If you could go back to twenty year old you, and give yourself 3 pieces of advice?
- What is the difference between validation and love?
- How did you make a switch internally from your days on The Bachelor to now where you don’t have to seek validation and leading with your ego?
- When did you finally let go of your first relationship after it had ended?
- What made you decide to go on The Bachelor?
- What would you say to yourself and to anyone going through a bad breakup, 3 key things to go through it with more grace?
- What does the pain of breakups, heartbreak mean most of the time?
- What’s the best relationship advice you’ve ever received?
- What’s your thoughts on if people should be public with their relationship?
- Why do a lot of women loved to be posted on instagram?
- What is the risk of a woman wanting a man to consistently post about them on instagram?
- If there’s a woman coming to you for advice, and wants to know why their guy isn’t posting about them on social media, what would you say?
- Who do you think cheat more today, men or women?
- If you were coaching a woman that was going to date yourself 20 years ago, What would be the 3 biggest red flags you would warn her about?
- You mentioned this abandonment fear, where did that come from?
- How many times did you get broken up with versus you breaking up?
- Can you truly be loved and accepted by someone else if you don’t truly learn to love yourself?
- Why do you think so many people settle in relationships for something they know is not right for them?
- What do you really want her (your child) to know growing up?
- How do you think a father can teach their daughter how to feel loved and valued without needing a toxic man to chase them?
- What do you think needs to die inside of you before your daughter is born for you to be the best father you can be?
- Where do you think things will be in the dating world 20 years from now?
- Do you think it’s possible for a woman to be in sex work and also be in a healthy, loving relationship?
- What do you think a man or a woman who has some attention from fame or success should be aware of when entering into a new relationship?
- In 20 years from now what will you look back on and be most proud of?
In this episode, you will learn:
- How to distinguish between seeking validation and experiencing true love.
- Strategies for moving on gracefully from a relationship and overcoming heartbreak.
- Insights into the dynamics of social media’s impact on love.
- The importance of self-love in attracting and maintaining healthy relationships.
- Future predictions for the dating world and advice for maintaining authenticity in relationships.
- Plus much more…
Show Notes:
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