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Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey: "I Wish I Knew THIS When I Was Single" - How To HEAL The #1 Pattern BLOCKING LOVE

"Every relationship is shaped in the crucible of hard conversations."

Today, we’re excited to chat with Matthew Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author, speaker, and renowned relationship coach. With over half a billion views on his YouTube channel and a top-rated podcast, Matthew’s practical advice on love and confidence has impacted millions worldwide. In this conversation we’ll dive into the secrets of all successful relationships. In this episode Matthew shares his invaluable insights on the key elements that constitute successful relationships. He emphasizes the importance of giving up certain types of attention to attract what you truly need, the distinction between impressing and connecting, and the crucial role of authenticity in forming genuine connections.

"Often in order to attract what you really need, you have to give something up. And often the thing that you have to give up is the kind of attention that you have been used to." @matthewhussey  

And now let’s jump into episode 1590 of The School of Greatness!

"Connecting comes from being real and authentic and impressing is what we do when we go in like we have something to prove." @matthewhussey  

Some Questions I Ask:

  • When you have become that high value person for a relationship, how do you know who to choose and when to choose?
  • How do we become the right person we need to be to attract the right person for us in love?
  • What is the difference between impressing and connecting?
  • When someone is connecting with another person for the first time on a date or meeting, what is the biggest mistake they could make in pushing that other person away?
  • What do women really want today? And why are some women turned off when a man is nice and generous with them?
  • If we’ve never had hard conversation in our previous relationships, how do we learn to have them without fearing that something bad will happen, blow out/break up?
  • How do you choose properly when you have an abundance of choices with potential partners?
  • If you could give your 18 year old self three pieces of advice about love, what would they be?

In this episode, you will learn:

  • How to distinguish between impressing and genuinely connecting with someone.
  • The importance of authenticity in forming strong, lasting relationships.
  • The crucial role of difficult conversations in shaping a relationship.
  • The significance of self-compassion and how it can lead to compassion for others.
  • Strategies for becoming the right person to attract the right partner in love.
  • Plus much more…

Show Notes:

Transcript of this Episode

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