New book from NYT bestselling author Lewis Howes is now available!

New book from NYT bestselling author Lewis Howes is now available!


Matthew Hussey

Love is not enough in intimate relationships!

"A high-value person isn’t just someone who looks good on paper; it’s someone who acts with integrity and shows consistent respect towards others, no matter the setting."

Today we’re back for ROUND 2 of all things relationships with none other than the insightful relationship coach, Matthew Hussey. Whether you’re healing a broken heart or exploring a new relationship, today’s episode is a must-listen. We’ll explore why breakups can hurt even when you know it’s for the best, what it truly means to change for someone you love, and how to identify if you’re dating a high-value person. Plus, we’re tackling the hard-hitting questions you need to ask early in a relationship to set the stage for lasting love. It’s time to get real about what love is, what it isn’t, and how to know if you’re on the right path with someone.

Buy his new book for yourself and a friend – Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)

"If loving you is at odds with me living a life of peace and happiness, then I can't choose love." @matthewhussey  

And now let’s jump into episode 1605 of The School of Greatness! 

"Love is a powerful foundation, but without communication, respect, and shared growth, it's like building a house on sand."@matthewhussey  

Some Questions I Ask:

  • Why is it painful when we go through a breakup, even when we know the person wasn’t the right person for us?
  • If someone asks you to change in a committed relationship, and you make that change, is that real love?
  • What are 3 potential signs that you’re on a date with a high value person?
  • What happens if you get into a relationship with someone who you feel like is out of your league?
  • What are the painful questions or conversations we should be having with someone early in the relationship that may cause pain and discomfort now but will not cause bigger problems in the future and will allow you to see if you’re on the right path or not?
  • Is love enough?
  • Why is love not all you need in intimate relationships?

In this episode, you will learn:

  • How to understand and process the emotional pain of a breakup, even when you acknowledge the relationship was not right.
  • The implications of changing yourself for someone else in a relationship and whether this aligns with true love.
  • Three key signs to identify a high-value person during the initial dates.
  • How to manage and understand the dynamics when you feel your partner is out of your league.
  • The essential early conversations in a relationship that, although potentially painful, can prevent major issues and align future paths.
  • Plus much more…

Show Notes:

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