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Lewis Howes

Try Me

“Instead of saying ‘Why me?’ all the time, start saying ‘TRY ME!’ and see your life unfold in a beautiful way.”

How many times has something happened in your life that made you think, “Why me??”

It’s so easy to wallow in victim mode when things seem to be out of your control, challenging, or against you.

But guess what?

Saying “why me” doesn’t change anything!

What if instead, you responded to life’s challenges with “Try me!”?

Sharing my thoughts on this from my own life in Episode 489 for 5-Minute Friday.

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