Jillian Turecki

How To Believe You Are Worthy Of The Love You Desire

"You don't want a project. You want a partner."

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Relationship expert Jillian Turecki delivers a masterclass in authentic love that challenges conventional wisdom about partnership in today’s divisive world. Through vulnerable personal stories, including her own experience in an abusive relationship, Jillian illuminates why it’s impossible to build a healthy connection with someone who isn’t genuinely invested in your growth and wellbeing. Her transformative insights reveal how relationships mirror our self-worth – making the journey toward wholeness essential for finding lasting love. Whether you’re dating, rebuilding after heartbreak, or seeking to strengthen an existing relationship, this episode provides the blueprint for creating partnerships based on mutual healing rather than mutual wounding.

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"You can't ask for safety from the person who's not integrated, who's not connected to his or her own body." @Jillian Turecki

And now let’s jump into episode 1740 of The School of Greatness!

"No one can fulfill you. No one single human being can fulfill you. Fulfillment comes from various sources and various people who we interact with." @Jillian Turecki

Some Questions I Ask:

“Why is it really hard to create a relationship with someone who’s not invested in you?”
“Why do people start behaving poorly after they’re in a relationship, and why do people stay once their partner starts consistently behaving poorly?”
“Why do some women love to take on a challenge with a man that they’re starting to date when they see a man that has some charm but also has a lot of complexities and brokenness?”
“When were you at your lowest self-worth in a relationship in your past?”
“What would you say are three tools that all relationships should be investing in developing in order to have more success?”
“What do you think are the three biggest killers of a relationship?”
“Why do certain people, when starting a relationship with someone who’s really showing up, start to sabotage it?”

In this episode, you will learn:

Why you cannot build a relationship with someone who isn’t invested in your wellbeing, and the telltale signs to recognize early on
How to distinguish between normal relationship friction and problematic behaviors that signal deeper compatibility issues
The psychological reasons people stay in relationships where they’re consistently mistreated and undervalued
Three essential tools every couple should implement to create resilient, fulfilling relationships
Why self-sabotaging behaviors emerge in relationships and how to recognize when your past wounds are threatening your present happiness
Plus much more…

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Kaibu by Killercats

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Jillian Turecki

How To Believe You Are Worthy Of The Love You Desire

"You don't want a project. You want a partner."

"You can't ask for safety from the person who's not integrated, who's not connected to his or her own body." @Jillian Turecki