Esther Perel

Esther Perel: The #1 Myth That Leads to Break-Ups- This is The Secret to Making Your Relationship Last

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I’m thrilled to welcome back the brilliant Esther Perel to the School of Greatness! With nearly four decades of experience as a therapist, Esther shares her profound insights on relationships in our ever-changing world. We dive deep into how the pandemic has affected partnerships, debunk common myths about love, and explore the delicate balance between togetherness and independence. Esther’s wisdom on jealousy, desire, and the evolution of marriage is truly eye-opening. Whether you’re single, dating, or in a long-term commitment, this conversation offers invaluable perspectives on creating and maintaining healthy relationships. Get ready for a masterclass in understanding the complexities of modern love and connection!

"Every relationship straddles freedom and commitment, togetherness and separateness, connection and independence." @Esther Perel

And now let’s jump into episode 1661 of The School of Greatness!

"Adult love lives with ambivalence, which means that relational ambivalence is part and parcel of all our relationships." @Esther Perel

Some Questions I Ask:

How can we balance our need for connection with our need for independence in relationships?
What are some healthy ways to deal with jealousy in a partnership?
How has your view on relationships evolved over the years?
What role does your social circle play in your dating life?
How do you maintain desire and attraction in a long-term relationship?

In this episode, you will learn:

How disasters like the pandemic act as relationship accelerators.
The myths of “the one and only” and unconditional love in relationships.
The importance of balancing togetherness and separateness in partnerships.
How to set yourself up for healthier relationships from the start.
The role of jealousy in relationships and when it can be positive.
The four main ways people feel most drawn to their partners.
How economic independence changed the landscape of marriage and divorce.
The value of involving your social circle when dating someone new.
Plus much more…

Show Notes:

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Esther Perel

Esther Perel: The #1 Myth That Leads to Break-Ups- This is The Secret to Making Your Relationship Last

"Every relationship straddles freedom and commitment, togetherness and separateness, connection and independence." @Esther Perel