Matthew Hussey & Sadiah Khan

Dating Experts: "She's Definitely Not in Love with You!" Exposing the Habits That End Relationships

"How we treat our loved ones at our worst is a symbol of how much we respect them." - Sadia Khan

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In this powerful episode of the School of Greatness, I sit down with relationship experts Sadia Khan and Matthew Hussey to explore the complex dynamics of modern relationships. We dive deep into why relationships fail and how to navigate breakups when necessary. Sadia, known for her work with men, and Matthew, a New York Times bestselling author who primarily coaches women, offer unique perspectives on the challenges couples face today. From the impact of social media on gratitude to the importance of emotional regulation, this conversation is packed with invaluable insights for anyone looking to improve their relationships or understand the intricacies of human connection in the digital age.

"We've got so many alternatives to the current situation that we are in. So it breeds ingratitude in both men and women." - Sadia Khan

And now let’s jump into episode 1659 of The School of Greatness!

"It's very easy to build up contempt for your partner. It's very easy to minimize all of the wonderful things about them or to no longer see the wonderful things about them and to magnify the things that frustrate you or annoy you." - Matthew Hussey

Some Questions I Ask:

What do you think is the number one cause of relationships ending in your mind?
Why do people struggle so much with conflict resolution?
Why do you think people struggle with emotional regulation, not just in life, but even heightened more in relationships?
How can someone learn to regulate their emotions in a relationship if they’ve been so used to reacting in fight or flight mode for so long?
What do you think about the saying, “If they can’t accept me at my worst, they don’t deserve me at my best” in relationships?

In this episode, you will learn:

The top reasons relationships fail in the age of social media and constant comparison
How to cultivate gratitude and appreciation for your partner amidst external distractions
Strategies for improving conflict resolution and emotional regulation in relationships
The dangers of selecting partners who enable emotional dysregulation
Why giving your partner the same grace you extend to others is crucial for relationship success
Plus much more…

Show Notes:

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Kaibu by Killercats

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Matthew Hussey & Sadiah Khan

Dating Experts: "She's Definitely Not in Love with You!" Exposing the Habits That End Relationships

"How we treat our loved ones at our worst is a symbol of how much we respect them." - Sadia Khan

"We've got so many alternatives to the current situation that we are in. So it breeds ingratitude in both men and women." - Sadia Khan