Jillian Turecki

9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Relationships Forever

"Your relationship is really dependent on what you put into it. It really is."

Renowned relationship coach and author Jillian Turecki delivers a masterclass in understanding the complex dynamics of modern relationships, drawing from both professional expertise and deeply personal experiences. Through raw and honest discussion, she reveals how our childhood wounds, particularly from parental relationships, shape our romantic patterns and ability to form healthy connections. The conversation takes an intimate turn as Jillian shares her own journey from an emotionally tumultuous marriage to becoming a leading voice in relationship wellness, highlighting the critical importance of self-worth, authentic communication, and the courage to speak difficult truths. This episode offers transformative insights for anyone seeking to build more fulfilling relationships, whether single or partnered.

Jillian’s new book “It Begins with You: The Nine Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life”

"For a relationship to be worth keeping, you have to risk losing it." @Jillian Turecki

And now let’s jump into episode 1719 of The School of Greatness!

"You want a partner, not a project."@Jillian Turecki

Some Questions I Ask:

What are the signs that someone is truly invested in you versus not?
Why do certain people start behaving poorly after they’re in a relationship?
Why do some women try to “fix” broken men?
What makes people stay in relationships when they’re not being treated well?
How do you become less judgmental as a human being?
What are three tools that all relationships should be investing in?
What’s the difference between lust and meaningful love?
How do you know when to fight for a relationship versus let it go?

In this episode, you will learn:

The crucial difference between love and lust, and why confusing the two leads to poor relationship choices
How to recognize when someone is truly invested in you versus merely interested
The three biggest relationship killers and how to avoid them
Why trying to “fix” or “save” a partner often stems from our own unresolved issues
The importance of having difficult conversations early in relationships to establish alignment
How our relationship with our parents influences our romantic partnerships
The danger of putting partners on pedestals and having unrealistic expectations
Why self-worth is fundamental to creating healthy relationships
Plus much more…

Show Notes:

Jillian’s new book “It Begins with You: The Nine Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life”

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Kaibu by Killercats

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Jillian Turecki

9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Relationships Forever

"Your relationship is really dependent on what you put into it. It really is."

"For a relationship to be worth keeping, you have to risk losing it." @Jillian Turecki