Do you have limiting thoughts and beliefs around success?
The truth is, that everyone has experienced limiting beliefs and self-doubt at some point in their lives. These are the beliefs that keep us from achieving our goals or reaching our full potential. They keep us in a fear-based mindset, and they can be very tough to overcome. But it is definitely possible if you have the right mindset and are willing to work hard!
Don’t give up on your dreams just because of a few doubts. Don’t give up because you’re afraid of failure. Start overcoming those limitations today! — You’ll be glad you did.
Our guest today is the perfect person to help us navigate through limiting beliefs and achieve self-acceptance. We have the inspiring Lilly Singh in the house! She is one of the biggest stars & internet personalities, earning millions of dollars from her YouTube channel.
But despite her huge successes, there was still a time when she felt lost and aimless, both professionally and personally. Today, she’s going to open up and share the key to living a fulfilling life, what is your foundation, how to approach failure, and so much more. It’s an exciting episode, so buckle up and let the class begin.
Who Is Lilly Singh?
Lilly Singh is a former talk show host of A Little Late with Lilly Singh and a TV personality appearing in Dreamworks animated comedy Bad Guys. She also appeared on television, opposite Shay Mitchell in the second season of the Hulu show Dollface.
She is also a famous YouTuber with 14.7 million subscribers and more than three billion views. In 2016, the Forbes list of the world’s highest-paid YouTubers ranked Lilly Singh third in the list, with reported earnings of $7.5 million. In the following year, she was ranked tenth on the same list with reported earnings of $10.5 million. In 2019, she was included in the Forbes list of 40 most powerful people in comedy.
Lilly Singh is also a New York Times bestselling author of the book, How to Be a Bawse: A Guide to Conquering Life. Her second book, Be a Triangle: How I Went from Being Lost to Getting My Life into Shape was also a huge success. She won several awards, including an MTV Fandom Award, two Teen Choice Awards, a People’s Choice Award, and four Streamy Awards.
While Lilly leads a highly successful and fulfilling life, it didn’t always use to be that way. She faced several challenges and obstacles, and today, we get to hear her story and learn how she flipped her mindset and achieved greatness.
The Key to Living a Fulfilling Life
Despite what you may see on social media, no one has a perfect life. We all go through hard times, make mistakes, and have to learn how to cope — that process is messy, awkward, and anything but Instagram-ready. But if you want to live a fulfilling life, you need to understand what makes you truly happy.
For some people, the key to happiness is love. For others, it is creative success or living in financial freedom. Each of us has a key to living a fulfilling life, and once you unlock it, the possibilities are endless. For Lilly Singh, the key was to build a strong foundation that didn’t falter, no matter what was going on in her life.
“The definition of a fulfilling life is to build a foundation, … to build a strong foundation for your life that actually does not teeter based on what is actually happening in your life.” – Lilly Singh
We all go through ups and downs in life. It’s how we handle these situations that determine our character and the strength of our foundation. No matter what life throws your way, make sure to always keep your head up and build a strong foundation that can’t be shaken by the outside world.
“When I have a bad day, … I felt like I changed to my core, like who I was as a person changed, my belief system changed, [and] how I treated myself changed. And that’s a very dangerous place to live — thinking that I am just gonna make myself completely vulnerable to all external forces. So no matter what happens in my day, I will just teeter in the direction that the world is making. — I don’t wanna live in that place. So what I mean by building a strong foundation is building a safe place in my mind that I can return to, regardless of what’s happening in my day. … [A safe place] where if you succeed tomorrow, if you fail tomorrow, you still have a safe place to return to where none of those things matter.” – Lilly Singh
Have you ever felt like your life is falling apart? Maybe a long-term relationship ended, you lost your job, or a family member passed away. How do you rebuild your life after the dust settles?