New book from NYT bestselling author Lewis Howes is now available!

New book from NYT bestselling author Lewis Howes is now available!


Charles Duhigg, Matthew Hussey & Jameela Jamil

3 Hacks for Supercommunicators to Build Trust & Influence

"Effective self-expression is empowering. When you find your voice and use it with purpose, you can inspire others and drive meaningful change."

Are you ready to transform your communication skills and build deeper, more meaningful relationships? In this episode of The School of Greatness, Lewis explores the art of communication with three exceptional guests. First, Charles Duhigg, Pulitzer Prize-winning reporter and bestselling author, reveals insights from his new book “Supercommunicators: How to Unlock the Secret Language of Connection,” sharing practical tips on how to enhance your communication skills for deeper connections. Next, relationship coach and author Matthew Hussey discusses the secrets to successful relationships, emphasizing the power of authenticity, the importance of giving up superficial attention, and distinguishing between impressing and connecting. Lastly, actress and advocate Jameela Jamil shares her compelling strategies for effective self-expression and advocacy, demonstrating how mastering communication can empower us to speak up for ourselves and inspire others, leading to transformative changes in our personal and communal lives.

"When we understand the habits behind how people communicate, we can create patterns that foster deeper relationships and transform how we connect with the world." - Charles Duhigg  

And now let’s jump into episode 1613 of The School of Greatness! 

"To attract what you truly need, you must first give up the superficial attention that doesn't serve your purpose."- Matthew Hussey  

Some Questions I Ask:

  • In your book Supercommunicators, you discuss unlocking the secret language of connection. What are some practical habits we can cultivate to communicate more effectively?
  • How does listening actively and responding empathetically play a role in building stronger relationships, both professionally and personally?
  • You emphasize the importance of authenticity in relationships. How can someone begin to differentiate between impressing and genuinely connecting with others?
  • What types of attention should we give up to attract what we truly need in relationships?
  • You are a passionate advocate for self-love and body positivity. How has mastering your own communication helped you find your voice and inspire others?
  • How can effective self-expression empower us to advocate for ourselves and drive positive change in the world?
  • What are some common communication barriers that prevent people from truly connecting, and how can they overcome them?
  • How can improving our communication skills lead to more fulfilling relationships and greater personal success?
  • Each of you advocates for authenticity and vulnerability in communication. What are some practical ways listeners can cultivate these traits in their daily lives?
  • How can effective communication help us identify and maintain healthy boundaries in our relationships?

In this episode, you will learn:

  • How to unlock the “secret language” of effective communication for deeper connections.
  • The role of authenticity and vulnerability in successful relationships.
  • How to distinguish between impressing and truly connecting with others.
  • The importance of giving up superficial attention to attract what you truly need.
  • How effective communication can empower personal advocacy and inspire transformative change.
  • Plus much more…

Show Notes:

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Charles Duhigg, Matthew Hussey & Jameela Jamil

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